Recommended Reading

For Children

Scaredy Squirrel
by Mélanie Watt

(fear and anxiety)

Scaredy Squirrel never leaves his nut tree; he is too afraid of tarantulas, poison ivy and green Martians. One day a bee startles Scaredy and launches him into a new life. Mélanie Watt's cheerful illustrations and clever observations provide a solid jumping off point for a discussion about fear and anxiety.

- Donnae 7/0

Brave, Brave Mouse
by Michaela Morgan, illustrated by Michelle Cartlidge

(fear and anxiety)

Little Mouse is scared of all sorts of things. Through a series of experiences, he learns when to be brave and try something new and when to say no.

- Donnae 7/06

I Don't Have Your Eyes
by Carrie A. Kitze, illustrated by Rob Williams

(adoption, foster care, kinship placement)

Sweet and direct, this uplifting book addresses both the differences and similarities that connect a child to a family, irregardless of how the child entered the family.

Also note that a downloadable guide for parents, along with other useful materials about adoption, is available through the publisher, EMK Press.

- Donnae 11/05

Kindergarten Kids: Riddles, Rebuses, Wiggles, Giggles, and More!
by Stephanie Calmenson, illustrated by Melissa Sweet

(rhythm, rhyme and kindergarten preparation)

Join the members of a kindergarten class as they demonstrate show and tell skills, solve puzzles, deal with making mistakes, do the popcorn dance and search for Mr. Wig (the Guinea Pig). Stephanie Calmenson's poems cover a magical range of kindergarten experiences. Her active rhymes are well mirrored in the joy and expression of Melissa Sweet's colorful illustrations.

- Donnae 4/06

Time to Say "Please"
by Mo Willems

(manners)

Romping mice, with a few guest appearances by other Mo Willems characters, simply and sweetly illustrate the need to say "excuse me," "thank you, " "I'm sorry" and especially "please."

Check out Mo Willems other fun books as well: Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus!, The Pigeon Finds a Hot Dog, Knuffle Bunny: a cautionary tale and Time to Pee!

- Donnae 10/05

Some Things Change
by Mary Murphy

(adapting to change)

Somethings change, we all change and somethings stay the same. Mary Murphy introduces the concept of change to young children by demonstrating changes in simple, understandable ways. Her appealing penquins act out changes from painting a wall to growth. Some Things Change is a wonderful way to introduce changes for two- to four-year-old children.

- Donnae 9/05

We're Moving
by Cyd Moore

(moving)

Amy does not want to move. She loves her flowers and her friends. But a lively day of exploring her new home, as she helps her brother Ben find his favorite toy car and plants flowers with her Dad, helps Amy adjust to her new situation.

- Donnae 8/05

Missing Rabbit
by Cyd Moore

(divorce)

"Where do I live?" Kara, a child of divorced parents sharing custody, expresses her concerns through her stuffed toy Rabbit. Author Cyd Moore explores the "Where do I live?" dilemma faced by many children of divorce when they are living in two locations. Her sweet and funny exchanges between Kara, her parents and Rabbit make this a great choice for sharing with younger children, especially those having difficulties with their situation.

- Donnae 7/05

It's Okay to Be Different
by Todd Parr

(diversity)

Todd Parr's simple and vivid illustrations address the joy of diversity. His text is eclectic and playful as this book celebrates a tolerance of self and others. The usual childhood challenges, such as lost teeth and needing glasses, are paired with the silliness of macaroni and cheese in the bathtub and pet worms in this fun read aloud.

- Donnae 7/05

For Parents

Cancer in the Family: Helping Children Cope with a Parent's Illness
by Michael P. Nichols, PhD

(cancer and coping with a parent's serious illness)

Full of practical advice paired with direct explainations about what a child may be experiencing, Cancer in the Family is an excellent guide to the emotions and situations that surround the treatment process. Highly recommended.

- Donnae 9/05

The Over-Scheduled Child: Avoiding the Hyper-Parenting Trap
by Alvin Rosenfeld, M.D., and Nicole Wise

(stress, media influence)

Do you have a long to-do list? Are you having trouble keeping up with the schedule you have arranged for your child? Is your child tired? Anxious? Are you constantly concerned with your child's progress, even when they are average or above average?

Sometimes a parent's best efforts to get it right get in the way. In The Over-Scheduled Child, authors Rosenfeld and Wise discuss the many pressures placed on parents through our culture and the media. An excellent book for stressed out families.

Stop Arguing with Your KIDS: How to Win the Battle of Wills by Making Your Children Feel Heard
by Michael P. Nichols, PhD

(conflict resolution)

Growing up is hard on both kids and parents. As a child develops, inevitably there are questions and arguments. Dr. Michael Nichols guides parents through a technique designed to assist in reducing arguments and the damage arguments cause to both parents and children.

Dr. Nichols describes this technique, known as responsive listening, as, "...a skill that enables parents to take charge of conversations with their children, not by laying down the law, but by shifting from the mind set of an opponent in a struggle for control to that of someone actively interested in the child's wishes and opinions."

The Wiggle & Giggle Busy Book: 365 Fun, Physical Activities for Toddlers and Preschoolers
by Trish Kuffner

(motor skills, cognative skills, imagination and social skills)

Bursting at the seams with wonderful ideas! The activities are simple to do, yet address a myriad of developmental skills critical for this age group. Few materials are required for the activities, and what is mentioned is accessible and inexpensive. One mother I showed the book to was happy to find that many of the activities would also keep her ten-year-old daughter entertained, either through participation or by assisting her five-year-old sister. Also recommended: The Toddler's Busy Book, by the same author.

- Donnae 4/06